| One of our wonderful - and clever - readers noticed a typo in the first issue - in our request for your feedback, it said “woulf” instead of “would” - which she thought might be intentional - given the canine contingent of our staff - the European spelling of woof, maybe?
Anyway, while fixing the typo, I was reflecting on how important feedback really is when you offer a “soulwork” to the world. I think creating art is soul work because it is the proferring of that which resides very deep inside - our essence really - and it is so important to be accepted for who we really are. That is why the tiniest negative comment at an art show can weigh in against two whole days of praise - and win the match. Or why most of the artistic abandon we feel as children is drained right out of us by the first teacher who tells us that a house doesn’t look “like that”.
It is the rare artistic soul that can stand up to negative criticism and depend upon their internal critic to know the work is good regardless of what others think. Confidence is only won after years of encouragement and positive feedback - and the pounding of that internal critic into submission. And still, it is a fragile and delicate prize indeed.
Thank you for your amazing, positive feedback - it keeps the ball rolling. (And, in case anybody ever says anything bad, I’ll have it to fall back on ;-)
This whole subject reminded me of a “Dear Me!” cartoon I did the 70’s that says it all, so I unearthed it to share. Some things just never change! (Her/my hair and demeanor were a little more subdued then, however.)
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